Marley -n- Me

Yeah, I know, I am this big, tough girl who uses bad words, doesn’t cry in front of people and fixes everyone else’s problems.  But, yeah, I get scared.  Sometimes I just need my Mommy too.

Russ was at a Conference all week in Orlando, ruff timing, and I was home with the pups, Clover and Marley’s Boy the week of surgery June 13th holding down the fort and the businesses.  The balancing act of just being a “single” working parent for one week is a lot.  Single parents have my utmost respect and admiration. They deserve all the cookies and ice cream this world has to offer, for real.

Doing this all alone the week of Marley’s amputation was definitely scaring the shit out of me.  Luckily G’ma and G’pa (my parents) were right by my side ready to help in anyway that they could.

I could kiss that nose for hours.

I drove Marley up to Dr. W the night prior to surgery.  The next day I was tapping my fingers on my desk just waiting for that phone call.  When it didn’t come by 4PM, you know that I was on the phone with the Vet office asking what was happening.  Dr. W had gotten backed up on surgeries and Marley was slotted to go in at 5:30PM.  That wasn’t all bad.  That was a busy part of my day, picking up Marley’s Boy and going home to make dinner, clean up dinner and get the dude ready for bed.  Like clockwork, I had just finished putting the last dish in the dishwasher when the Vet office called and said Marley was out of surgery and was waking up.  She was up and alert.  A wave of relief hit me.

But my bigger concern was how she was going to tolerate the next few days post surgery after her pancreatitis/pneumonia following the last surgery.  Now a whole new set of stressors came on.  I told the Tech that she had to be hand fed.  No ifs, ands or buts about it.  Hand feed that girl if she will eat it please.  She laughed uncomfortably for a second.  And I said “No, seriously, I am not kidding.  I need you to hand feed her.  Will you please do that?”

G’Ma came to spend the night with Marley’s Boy and I was up the next morning at 5AM popping out of bed ready to go see my girl.  Yeah, I am pretty sure that was a mistake.  She was still very doped up and groggy.  I don’t even know that she realized it was me in the room.  I could have been a purple unicorn as far as she was concerned.  There was a yellow see-through bandage holding her whole leg together that was filled with blood.  The only thing I could equate it to were those thick plastic wrapped racks of meat at the grocery store that always make my stomach turn whenever I see them.  But this was Marley’s hip.  Uggh.  It was dripping blood.  Yeah, it wasn’t a pretty sight for 6:30AM.  They said she had not eaten yet and I sighed.  I left to go to work for what would be an exceptionally busy day.  Hoping and praying that Marley got better throughout the day and started to eat.  Not a great way to start the day.

That evening, I got home and told G’Ma and Marley’s Boy that I was going back up to see her.  They both chimed right in and said “Great, we will join you!”  I wondered if that was such a good idea.  I had only talked about Marley going in for surgery and having a big boo-boo with Marley’s Boy.  Before we left, we sat on the couch and I spent some time showing Marley’s Boy pictures of dogs (thank you Google) that had amputated legs.  By the time we were on the road, Marley’s Boy was talking fluently about Marley’s “sooogewy” and that her “leg was gone, the doctors took it”.  I was pretty confident that he understood.

We walked into the room and I heard the Tech behind the door say “Come on Marley, your family is in here!”  To my surprise Marley came bouncing into the room, tail wagging and happy to see us!  The tech said she is doing very well after surgery.  Standing up herself to get out of the crate.  Sitting up during the day.  But she still wouldn’t eat for them. She brought in a dog bowl of three kinds of food…two mashed kinds and also some rotisserie chicken.

I had stopped at a BBQ joint and picked up a 1/2 pound of brisket.  Marley already had her nose in my purse digging for it!  So I pulled it out and opened it up and we spent a few minutes getting some food into her.  She ate the rotisserie chicken as well but would not touch the “hospital food.”  Ha!  That IS my girl.  She laid down pretty quickly but she was alert and definitely happy to see us.  Marley’s Boy looked at her yellow plastic bandage, put his hand over it and said “Ow, wow, that’s a big boo-boo Marley.”  And then it was back on to loving her and telling her about his day at school.  I didn’t know what to expect in terms of his reaction to her.  But he didn’t even skip a beat.  He grabbed her leash and said “Come on Marley.  Come on let’s go for a walk outside.”  Man, kids can teach us so much.

We took Marley outside to potty, spent some more time loving on her and then we left to go home.

Stopping for some ice cream first, of course.

Thursday morning she looked even better.  Thursday evening she looked even better still.  Friday morning she was bouncing on one leg to go outside and R-E-F-U-S-E-D to go back inside.  She stopped at every car door. Looked back at me waited for me to lift her in.  She didn’t care whose car it was…she was determined to go home!  I laughed and had to carry her back inside because this girl was not released to go home yet.  Friday afternoon I got the call that she was being released and I closed the office early and rushed to go pick her up.

We walked in the front door almost the same time that Russ did from Florida.  Our family was back together again!